In life you are judged by the people around you. You are judged at every second of your life. You are judged by people who you do not know. You are judged by friends. You are judged by families. You are sometimes judged by your own self.
We cannot run from being judged by people around because that is the nature of life. People will have the first impression judgment on you. Another thing that you cannot run from is the negative judgments by others. Well, most of the time the judgments are negative. In a way you just cannot run from being judged either by someone you know or someone you not know. Either way it still happens and still hurt.
However, people forget sometimes that they have to judge themselves first before judging another person. Before pointing all flaws of another person, you have to identify your own flaws and only then you will own the rights to judge another.
Sometimes people tend to act as though they know so much about you but in reality they might have got to know your name only and that only. Some people can make a judgment out of a name and appearance. Straight away jump to conclusion and it becomes stereotypes. For example, a boy wearing spectacles, shirt and tuck-in pants is viewed as someone who is boring and a nerd therefore hanging out with them would not be any fun.
General judgments can also be called as assumptions. Therefore, I view this as a rumour starter. It starts small talks between two or more persons which lead to making stipulations about the person that is assumptions. You have to remember that word of mouth travels faster than light and sound. The basic assumptions which were started in the first conversation will move to another conversation and it will go on and on and as a result rumour started. This is caused by judgment/assumption.
Just be careful before you judge someone. They might be better than you.
Love,
MARL!
We cannot run from being judged by people around because that is the nature of life. People will have the first impression judgment on you. Another thing that you cannot run from is the negative judgments by others. Well, most of the time the judgments are negative. In a way you just cannot run from being judged either by someone you know or someone you not know. Either way it still happens and still hurt.
However, people forget sometimes that they have to judge themselves first before judging another person. Before pointing all flaws of another person, you have to identify your own flaws and only then you will own the rights to judge another.
Sometimes people tend to act as though they know so much about you but in reality they might have got to know your name only and that only. Some people can make a judgment out of a name and appearance. Straight away jump to conclusion and it becomes stereotypes. For example, a boy wearing spectacles, shirt and tuck-in pants is viewed as someone who is boring and a nerd therefore hanging out with them would not be any fun.
General judgments can also be called as assumptions. Therefore, I view this as a rumour starter. It starts small talks between two or more persons which lead to making stipulations about the person that is assumptions. You have to remember that word of mouth travels faster than light and sound. The basic assumptions which were started in the first conversation will move to another conversation and it will go on and on and as a result rumour started. This is caused by judgment/assumption.
Just be careful before you judge someone. They might be better than you.
Love,
MARL!
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