People See You For Who You Truly Are

A question was put forward by a person.

"How do people see us? First Impression or Our-Self?"

My answer would be "Our-Self"

I will not deny that First Impression is DAMN important in our lives. But as time pass by who you truly are is the most important part in becoming peoples' friends. It is not easy to be friended with people. I know that. We need to find someone that is same-cool-character like yours. As I said earlier First Impression is important. But, even if your first impression is DAMN good! For example, a job interview. In job interviews the most important part is the Impression the boss put towards you. That what people would say. During that interview you did WELL in impressing the boss and you are hired. Once you are hired you changed. You became lazy and etc. At that moment, First Impression will not be used anymore. Your First Impression towards your boss during the interview has no use anymore. It has no value then. What they see now is

WHO YOU REALLY ARE!

Lazy employee! People will still judge you by then. Remember, You are still being judged no matter what. It doesn't matter even if you have been there for 10 years, You will still be judged!!

Who you really are is the most important part/thing now. You need to be yourself. It is no use in being other/different people because no matter how long you try to act like a person who really aren't, you will not get there. So, just be YOURSELF! Isn't being yourself is so much easier? I would say YES. It is easier but I will tell you that it depends on how your characters are. Not everyone can be themselves in some situation. People would say that. Am I right? People would ask me. " How if my own character will just bring me to self-destruction? I don't have good personality. I don't have good attitude." Well then people. CHANGE!! Change is good. But change for the goods and not for the bads. When we change for good and use it for goods then it is good. But if it used otherwise then it'll be no use! When you change and instill it in you then it will be YOU! Next step, BE YOURSELF! As I mentioned earlier.

I hate it when a person acted as if he/she is so cool but they really aren't. They think that they are cool but honestly they are NOT! Why can't they just be themselves. Why do they have to act as if they are so cool. Cool here does not relate it to Funny, Happy-Go-Lucky, easy-to-hang-out-with. You know that kinda attitude. Cool that I am talking about here is Arrogant, Selfish, etc. That kinda attitude. Hate those people. That kinda attitude need to be changed. Immediately! They need to tone down a-bit. People don't like that kind of a person. People hate it! You know what ever it is people like Friendly people. Arrogant and selfish person will not be liked by others. Unless they have split personality. That kind of person, I don't know how to comment.

As for you (who is reading this), do not be SNOBBISH! Snobbish is not good and it is no use. Don't know what snobbish means, look into the dictionary. Again I want to stress here is BE YOURSELF! In being someone who you are not is just not that worth it! Acted like someone you are not is just not going to be useful because so long you act you will become yourself. Who you truly ARE! People will still see you for who you are. People will still judge you on how you react. People will still love you for how you be. People will still hate you for what you are hated for. So, be yourself and you will have nothing to lose! As long as you live, there will be people who are comfortable and not comfortable for who you are. No one can run from that. That is the Nature of Humankind!

p/s: Remember...Be YOURSELF!

Love,

MARL