Good Evening. It is Ramadan month now and you all know that it is time for all Muslims to fast. It is compulsory for every Muslim to fast and if you skip for fun, it's 'DOSA'. We all know that, don't we? The most important thing in Ramadan month is that to be close to Allah The Almighty. This is the most crucial time for you to ask for forgiveness, ask for happiness and etc. People said that at this month that most of your wish will come true. So, people! Let's PRAY! LOL!
Enough talking about Ramadan. What I want to tell you guys today is that to FOLLOW YOUR OWN ADVICE. Some people know how to give good advice and some don't. Some people is really good in consoling people and some don't. Some people is really good in making people feel good while some don't. Some people will be looked for for advice and that the person will give advice and all sorts. And yes, they succeed.
What happens when you yourself are not in a good situation. If you are good in advising people, why don't you use your own advice and console yourself. It is a sign of failure when you are in a situation where you can control but you are not controlling it. In a way, you can lose respect from people surrounding you. When people put such high expectations on you and expect that you are good in what ever that you do at the end you messed it BIG, people will start losing their respect against you. When you are in the situation that you are not that comfortable in, what you can do is to give advice to yourself as the way you give others advice. Before you lose respect, it is better if you keep calm and continue with what ever that you should be doing.
By giving up, you can disappoint others. Giving up is something that me myself can't tolerate. Before you said you can't, why don't you TRY! You will not know how you do until you try. Once you try doing it, you will know whether you are good at it or bad at it. Either way, it's OK cause that is the use of learning. This is the norm of a learning process. Without failure there will be no success. You need to learn to be wrong so that in the future you can do the right thing. It is alright if you make a mistake and again that is the use of the whole learning process that is for you to learn and that is to learn from mistakes. No one is PERFECT and I mean that. I myself am NOT perfect. No one is. So, throw away the shyness and try out. Again I'm stressing that Giving Up annoys me..BAD! Especially giving up before even trying. I am not denying the fact that me myself felt like giving up before but what I did was to try to solve and go through with it and at the end you will see the results. Without an action, there will be NO results. Without a start, there will be no ending. So, in what ever that you do, try and start to take action before you even give up because once you give up and do nothing about it, NOTHING will move and at the end you will gain NOTHING! Remember,
NO ACTION = NO RESULTS = GAIN NOTHING
ACTION = GOOD/BAD RESULTS = LESSON LEARNED
Conclusion is that to NOT GIVE UP! If you are down, give advice to yourself the way you give others advice. Remember all your advice for others and try living up with your own advice!
Love,
MARL!
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